honest kinda hurts

It's all well and good, but let's keep in mind that sometimes blunt force honesty can down right hurt.

Until your four-year-old defies your authority in public... judge not. Until you weigh so much that you hate yourself... judge not. Until you struggle to make all the ends meet... judge not. Until you're walking a mile or two in these shoes... judge not.

Ephesians 4:26, “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful and for building others up according to their needs that it may benefit those who listen.” (NIV)